The Best Dating Tips for Men

Dating can be a fun and exciting experience, but it can also be nerve-wracking. If you are not sure where to start, or you feel like you are making all the wrong moves, or how to act around women,  you may wind up feeling like a nervous wreck. 

Don’t worry – we have got you covered. Here are some tips you can follow to make the process easier and less stressful. With these tips, you will be able to impress your date and make her feel special whether you are just getting started with dating or you want to improve your skills. 

Dating tips for men

• Be personable

Asking someone out on a date can be nerve-wracking, especially if it is your first time. Men should avoid emailing or texting a woman to ask her out for the first time. You might think you are being cool by doing so, but it can come across as lazy and unengaged. 

It is much more personal and engaging to call the person you are interested in and ask them out over the phone. Plus, it allows you to gauge their interest level before you invest too much time planning a date.

• Don’t move too fast

For the majority of women, online dating entails some level of risk and anxiety. So you must spend time getting to know her through phone and video chats before you meet them in real life. This will allow both of you to make an informed decision about moving forward and help ensure that your first meeting goes smoothly!

• Go somewhere you are comfortable

You might think that letting your date decide where you go on a first date is an act of gentlemanly respect, but women like it when the man takes initiative and surprises them, instead of taking asking them where they would want to go. 

Make arrangements to meet at a familiar place so you can be comfortable, and it is easier to get to know someone in an environment that is familiar to you and feels safe.

• Keep it light-hearted 

On a first date, you should make sure that things are light and comfortable for both of you. You don’t want the conversation to be too heavy, as it can make things feel awkward. Here are a few tips to keep the conversation flowing easily: 

1. Ask your date questions about themselves – this will help you get to know them better and keep the conversation flowing. 
   
   
2. Be playful and flirty – banter is a great way to keep things light and entertaining. 
   
   
3. Avoid negative topics – steer clear of discussing controversial topics or anything that could potentially spoil the mood. 
   
   
4. Make an effort to connect with your date – try to find common ground and relate to what they are saying.
   
   
5. Keep the conversation fun – a good sense of humor is always appreciated. Keep things light and fun, and you will be sure to have a great time.

• Embrace confidence

Dating can be difficult, especially when you are not confident in yourself. Don’t worry, it is natural to be a little anxious before meeting someone new.  If you want to make a good impression on your date, just remember to stay confident and be yourself. She will appreciate your genuine personality, and you will have a great time together! 

• Look your best

Basic dating etiquette is all about being presentable, and you want your date to be impressed by you. It is important to take care of your physical appearance before going on a date. Make sure you are well-groomed (check for dirty fingernails, freshly apply deodorant), your clothes fit well and are clean, and that your hair is styled properly.

• Do more than dinner and drinks

If you are looking for a great date idea, this is the time to do more than just dinner and drinks. Sure, they are a tried and true standby, but there are so many more options out there that will make your date memorable. It is not enough anymore to just show up at the restaurant or meet for drinks. 

You need to be thinking about what activities you can do on your date together, something where both of you have to put some effort in. Plan some activities or adventures like bowling, hiking, kayaking, especially on the first few dates, where first impressions count the most. Make a memorable date for them.

• Remember your manners

Good manners can be the difference between a good first impression and a bad one. Whether you are on an online dating app, or in person with someone who’s caught your eye, make sure to show her that you know how to behave like a gentleman. 

• Give her space

If you have recently started dating someone, it is important to give her some space. This means that you shouldn’t call or text her constantly, and you should also avoid going to her house or spending too much time with her. 

By giving her some space, you are showing her that you respect her and that you are not just another guy who’s trying to monopolize her time. It will allow both of you to develop a deeper connection over time. So if you want things to work out with a girl, make sure to give her the space she needs.

• Leave a little mystery

You should never give all of your cards when getting to know someone new. It is wise not to tell them everything about yourself or reveal every secret of your life. The sense of mystery will keep them coming back for more while also creating certain chemistry between you.

If you are a single man looking for advice on relationships and how to date,  then CGull is the place for you. We offer coaching services specifically tailored to men. Our one-on-one coaching specializes in helping our clients create the life they want by improving their confidence, communication skills with women, body language techniques that work well on dates, and more!

Contact us today and set up an appointment with our expert dating coach.