Services
Four ways to work with us.
One method underneath.
Start where you are. Most men start with the Introduction Workshop or a 1-on-1 discovery call. We will tell you on the consult which one actually fits.
Private
1-on-1 Coaching
Custom diagnostic. Custom roadmap. The work no group setting can touch.
Private coaching for men who want a focused, confidential space to work on the parts of themselves they would not raise in a group. Begins with a diagnostic call. Built around your specific patterns, your specific context, and the specific outcome you actually want.
- Discovery session and personal diagnostic
- Weekly or bi-weekly 1-hour sessions
- Direct messaging access between sessions for field corrections
- Custom field assignments based on your bottlenecks
- Strict confidentiality
From SGD $480 per session · packages on the consult call
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Group · Foundation
Introduction Workshop
What modern women are looking for. What attractive actually means. Why your current approach is not landing.
The fundamentals of modern courtship in Singapore. We cover the science and history of attraction, what women are signalling for in 2026, and how a man can be attractive without performing.
- Six hours, intimate group size
- The science and history of attraction
- Modern Singaporean dating context, not American imports
- Q&A, frameworks, and field-practice prompts
- All materials and recordings included
SGD $198 · next cohort dates on the consult call
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Group · Operational
Intermediate Workshop
Six weeks. Calibration to closing. The operational backbone of the practice.
The full six-week build, delivered live and in cohort. We start with where you are. By the end you are running the courtship process consciously, no scripts, across bio, photos, texting, the date, and post-date. Most clients say week four is the moment they realise they have been undertrained their whole adult life.
- Six live weekly sessions, small cohort
- Field-practice assignments between every session
- Female-friend wingman protocol, taught explicitly
- Real-life venue and date design, not abstractions
- Direct group access for in-the-field questions
SGD $248 · prerequisites apply
Apply for the cohortWeek by week
What the six weeks actually look like.
The Intermediate Workshop is not a lecture series. It is a six-week operational build. Each week has a target, a field assignment, and a check-in. Most clients say week four is when something clicks that has not clicked their whole adult life.
- Week 01
Calibration and the vision.
First meet. We calibrate where you are: past relationships, dating history, app behaviour, where you actually struggle. Then we run the vision: not the end of the course, the peak of your manhood. Where is he? What does he look like? Who is around him? How far are you from that man right now? You leave with that picture, and the start of a plan.
- Week 02
Bio, photos, and the female friend.
We rebuild your dating profile from scratch. Every photo a conversational piece, not a selfie. Bio in three deliberate parts: opening, qualifier, call to action. We recruit a trusted female friend as your shopping and grooming wingwoman. She takes your photos. She tells you which shoes embarrass her. She becomes part of the architecture.
- Week 03
Texting and matching.
Two objectives. Make texting fun for her. Move it offline within two weeks. We replace the “hi, what's up” opener with reference to something she actually wrote. We match her volume. We let her be the last two texts sometimes. You learn to show you have a life by disappearing for hours and coming back, instead of by performing one.
- Week 04
Conducting the date.
The most important week. The date has three parts: pre-date, date, post-date. We plan venue, outfit, topics, the post-date extension. We use the 80/20 rule on talk time. She does most of the talking, you do most of the asking. You set a false time constraint up front. You end on a high. You schedule the next date while still on this one. You do not pick her up. You do not send her home. The MRT station is the max.
- Week 05
Female wingmen and course recalibration.
We use your female-friend network to enter female-dominated environments: yoga, dance, a class you would have avoided. You are pre-selected as a man women trust the moment you walk in with her. The conversation isn't during the class; it's at the meal after. We also recalibrate where you are in the dating market and adjust the rest of the program to where you actually are now, not where you started.
- Week 06
Close.
No fixed assignment. The week is open. We catch up on backlog, refine the bio, sit through real-time field questions, or use the time to seal you into ongoing work if that's the right next step. Sometimes the female-friend wingman joins. The end of the program is not the end of the work. It's the moment you have the operational fluency to keep doing it without us.
Group · Advanced
Mastery
Meta-development. For the man who is ready to grow the next generation.
For men who have the foundations handled and want to do the deeper work: the work of becoming a man who can mentor other men. Meta-topics in modern upbringing, the responsibilities of male leadership, the practice of becoming a beacon for younger men.
- Selective enrolment, by invitation or interview
- Advanced frameworks for leadership and mentoring
- Community of men working at the same depth
- Ongoing support after the formal program ends
SGD $348 · interview required
Request an interviewCommon questions
Before you book.
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What is the minimum age for the courses?
Twenty-one. We discuss sex, ethics, and a range of unflinching topics. We need participants who have full legal ownership of their own decisions.
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I have never been in a relationship. Is this for me?
Absolutely. Our work is built for men anywhere on the spectrum: from never dated, to dating casually, to wanting something serious. The frameworks scale across all of it.
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How is this different from a pickup course?
Pickup teaches what to say. We teach who to be. Pickup works on appearance and tactics; we work on principles. We may borrow a useful technique from that world occasionally, but the spine of our work is attraction as a function of the man, not the script.
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Do you teach street pickup?
No. Most Western teaching uses it. In Singapore it has been shown not to work, and it tends to create men who become worse company every year they run it. We focus on contexts where you can actually meet women you would want to know.
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Why does the Intermediate Workshop spend a week on a female friend?
Because the missing infrastructure in most men's lives is a woman who will give them honest, non-romantic feedback. A female friend who is willing to do your shopping, take your photos, and tell you what you actually look like to women is one of the most valuable assets a man can have. We make recruiting and using one part of the program.
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Is my information confidential?
Yes. We take privacy extremely seriously and will never use your details, your story, or anything you share without explicit written permission. This is non-negotiable.
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Do you work with non-Singaporean men?
Yes. Most of our work is shaped around the Asian and Singaporean context, but the principles apply universally. If you are based elsewhere and want to work with us, the 1-on-1 program is your best entry point.
Still not sure which one is for you?
That is what the consult is for.
Thirty minutes. We listen. We tell you honestly which program fits, or whether you should start somewhere else entirely.