Selling Yourself Right
We have been selling things to others our entire lives. It might not be as blatant as selling a product or service. But we have been educating our ‘warm market’ on how good the product is, why ev
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On Courtship & Dating.
The mechanics of meeting, dating, and choosing well in modern Asia.
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What Women Look For In ‘Porn’
The elements that men look for in women are vastly different from what women look for in men. The key here is not only to be aware of the elements and values that women are seeking, but also to b
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Why having different personas is important
We all have different personas and social masks that we swap between on a daily basis, and it is catered to the objective and audience we are working with.
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Why PickUp Lines do not matter
This has been debated over and over again by many. And we get all kinds of responses from that. But one type of answer that has always echoed from the professionals from all over the world is - i
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5 Things Girls Want Guys to Do on a First Date
Whether you're looking for a fun hike in the rough wilderness or a fancy evening out in a sophisticated restaurant, there are some basic rules of behavior. Even if things get more casual later on
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On doing the 'right thing' during dates
As modern men, we have heard the phrase “Be a man” multiple times throughout our lifetime. This ‘advice’ can come at us from various age groups, social circles and also from both genders. But usu
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Manhood Initiations - A Man's Rite of Passage
Initiation into adulthood has been an age-old concept in the history of civilization, and has been present across most cultures through various customs. The rites of passage from boyhood to manho
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Men - You have to love yourself first
We all want to be loved by others. But at times we don't give them a fair chance to even like us. This is because many of us don't like ourselves in the first place. This negative perception rega
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Giving life to your conversations with Women
Conversations used to be the glue in having meaningful relationships, and social as well as professional interactions. A good heart-to-heart or a one-on-one worked wonders daily. It kept serious
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Conversational Ratios - How Much effort do we put into a conversation
When two people talk, the conversational ratio is the ratio of the talk-time taken up by them in the conversation. In an ideal dating scenario, the ratio should be 50:50, given that in an ideal s
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Controlling the Conversation while Dating
The purpose of having a conversation while dating is to get to know each other better, and to have fun while doing it. Also, it is about you controlling the conversation without looking like you
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The Wingman, or Wingwoman
Never underestimate the powers of the wingman if you are contemplating venturing into the dating scene. A wingman is your friend who will accompany you to social gatherings, and make it easier f
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How to get good socially
Society is what exists around you, in terms of the people who have direct or indirect influence on your life. It is important to be a good member of that society as it will determine your level o
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Being 'yourself'
While having been encouraged to be yourselves almost all your lives, some of you, at one point, may realise that being so is not getting you anywhere in life, let alone even near about where you
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Abundance Mind-set - The preferred way of life
Understanding the concept of an abundance mind-set would be incomplete without the understanding of a scarcity mind-set...
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Online Dating Consultants' Chill Guide to Balanced Dating
Finding love in the Lion City can sometimes feel like searching for a quiet spot at Marina Bay Sands during peak hours, which is challenging but not impossible. Did you know that nearly 58% of s
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Top 7 Ideal First Date Tips From Dating Experts
So, you’ve finally scored a first date! Congrats! But wait, what do you do now? Do you bring flowers, write a poem, or perform a magic trick? Take a deep breath, dear reader! We have your back w
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Skip These Convo Starters On Your First Date
Ah, first date! They're like a box of surprises, and you never know what you're going to get! They can be exciting, nervous, and sometimes funny. When trying to make a good impression, sometimes
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Stop Comparing! Tips From Dating Consultants
In the realm of dating and relationships, social media shows us perfect dates and dream proposals, making us compare our own love lives to those pictures. The influence of social media can change
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5 Signs It's Time to Consult a Relationship Expert
Dating can be really tough, and sometimes, you might feel like you're not doing it right. If you keep running into the same problems or just can't seem to figure things out, maybe it's time to t
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"Set Your Standards in Your Dating Life", Says Relationship Experts
In the quest for a fulfilling dating life, setting boundaries and standards is like navigating through a dense, mysterious forest. You need that compass to guide you, ensuring you don't lose you
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10 Relationship Readiness Signs From Relationship Experts
In the quest for companionship, it's crucial to ask oneself, "Am I really ready for a relationship?" Beyond the common yardsticks like emotional availability and the desire for partnership, ther
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Spot Profile Red Flags With Online Dating Consultants
Online dating has become the new norm in our quest for love in this digital age. It's like a treasure hunt, but instead of gold, you're searching for a genuine connection. However, just like an
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10 Rules of Texting On "When Not To Text?"
In the realm of dating, texting has become our go-to for staying connected. It's quick, convenient, and lets us keep the conversation going even when we're miles apart. But hold up! Before you
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Rules for Texting: Craft Messages That Spark Interest and Excitement
Struggling to keep your texts interesting in the dating world? You're definitely not alone. Texting is a big deal in modern dating, but it's often tough to keep the spark alive through a screen.
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Rules of Texting: How Should You Use Emojis When Dating?
Ever been caught in the puzzle of decoding a text from your crush with just a few emojis as clues? Welcome to the quirky world of modern dating, where the 'Rule of Texting' is an unwritten guide
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Amp Up Your First Date With Different Styles of Texting
Are you wondering how a few texts spark a real connection for that exciting first date? Well, it's all about hitting the right notes with your words. Texting is the appetizer before the main co
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7 Date Ideas for the Busy Singaporean Professional
Let's face it: for us busy bees in Singapore, squeezing in time for an exciting date can be as tricky as navigating Orchard Road on a weekend! But hey, who says a packed schedule means dull date
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Craft Texts Beyond "Hey" for Unforgettable Date Ideas
In the digital age, the journey towards a captivating date begins long before the meet-up; it starts with that initial text message. How many times have we started with a mere "Hey!" only to fin
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How Dating Courses Can Help from Work-Life Imbalance Affecting Your Love Life
In our fast-paced world, juggling work and personal life feels like an Olympic sport, right? While we're clocking extra hours at work or catching up on emails late into the night, our love life