Why she chose the bad boy. What you got wrong about being nice.
You met her. You were attentive. You did everything right. And then she chose someone who treated her noticeably worse. Here is what actually happened.
Insights · On Attraction
On Attraction.
What actually moves the needle, and why most advice misses it.
Reading on On Attraction
23 essays.
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The Conversation Is Not the Point
Most men try to be a conversationalist by talking more. The real move is upstream: read the room, hold its tempo, lead what it feels. The talking is the smallest part.
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How a Story Earns Its Payoff
Most men think storytelling is having something interesting to tell. The harder skill is knowing what to leave in, what to leave out, and where the punchline has to land.
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The best pictures for your dating profile
Our dating profile has to be subject-worthy to hold a conversation, spark intrigue and show our character. We at CGull have the best tips and tricks on what kinds of profile pictures are the best
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The importance of Status
As guys, we have learnt that status would reward us with female choice and the ‘alpha male’ is the one with the biggest muscle that can beat up any incoming foe. And if we don't have the biggest
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Why She Likes Funny Guys
Across all languages, cultures and beliefs within humans, the 3 common ways of communicating are laughing, crying and screaming. These are innate systems in humans across all cultures that we are
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How you can increase your Attraction Score on Dates
You may have noticed that most people who end up as couples have met before and spent time together. Be it in school, during extracurricular activities, at work and so on. They might have met eac
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Charisma – The mystery word
Charisma is an often-used mystery word. While everyone has a general inkling about what it means, they will find it hard to define it. This is why, while people want to be charismatic, they do no
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Attraction can be switched on
Attraction is something that Nature switches on for you when you reach puberty. But it's only that one time that Nature does it for you. After that, switching it off or on again is in your hand.
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Men's Guide for Sexy Clothing on First Date
Gearing up for a first date is always akin to preparing for a smooth sailing voyage into the seas of romance. You are the captain, and your outfit is your ship. Both need to be in top shape to n
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Sexy Clothes for Every Date - Dressing Tips
Ah, you swiped right, and they did, too. Congratulations! Now comes the real challenge, and no, it's not choosing the perfect emoji to send first. It’s figuring out what to wear! Whether you’re
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Why Is Your 'Status' Important in Online Dating Profiles?
Hey there! Jumping into the world of online dating is always exciting but also a bit overwhelming. One key part of setting up your dating profile is figuring out what to share about your 'status
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8 Charming Conversation Openers for Romantic Dating
Starting a conversation on a romantic date doesn't have to be nerve-wracking. With the right opener, you can set the tone for a lovely evening filled with laughter, shared stories, and genuine c
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Photos to Attract a Woman: Matchmakers' Top Picks
Ever wonder what makes a photo irresistible in the digital dating scene? Well, matchmakers, those wizards of love connections, have some intriguing insights to share. Picture this: your online p
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7 Traits of Men Who Don’t Need to Attract a Woman
Ever noticed how some guys seem to have it all together without even trying? They’re not flexing on social media or boasting about their latest conquests. Instead, they just quietly go about the
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How to Get a Right Swipe With Your Profile Status
Ever noticed how some folks always seem to nab those right swipes? It's not just about having a killer smile or the perfect selfie angle. The real secret? Crafting a profile status that's like s
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Sexy Clothes and Why They Really Matter
"You never get a second chance to make a first impression," said Will Rogers. Ever heard of 'Dress to Impress? That's key for your first date. There you stand, staring into your closet, wonderin
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Status Importance in Dating: 10 Tips to Master!
Hey! Want to make your online dating profile stand out? With so many profiles out there, it's crucial to make yours memorable. But don’t worry, it’s easier than you think. We've got some great t
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Not Getting Swipes On Tinder? Here's What To Do
You've created your profile, set your standards, and patiently waited for the signal that you have a match. But it's been days, and you didn't get any swipes! If that's the scenario, there are ot
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Don't Make These Picture Errors To Get Tinder Matches
Do you frequently miss out on Tinder matches? Take a long, hard look at your Tinder photos if that is the case. Chances are that you have uploaded bad, inappropriate, or irrelevant pictures. Thi
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How To Use Your Fashion Sense To Attract Women
Every person wants to appear attractive and organised in front of their dates. But, unfortunately, not everyone can bring it off like a pro! Since the beginning of time, men have struggled with
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The Power Of Body Language And How It Can Help You Attract Women
You must be familiar with actors who aren't handsome in a conventional way but still have a more significant part of the female population fawning over them. But, of course, a man's features don'
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Why Modern Women Go For Bad Boys
Who wants to be a 'bad boy’? You should be… when it comes to dating today! Because that is what women dig big time. Sounds intriguing? Read on. Definite trends show that 'bad boys’ appeal to the