Insights · On Attraction
What actually moves the needle, and why most advice misses it.
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The line lands. The routine gets a laugh. Then week two arrives and the structure falls apart. Tricks have a shelf life because they manage her perception without changing the man underneath.
Her lock screen is one of them, a man who does not know she exists. If that baffles or needles you, here is what the K-pop idol actually is, and the one thing he can never give her that you can.
She pauses the show and asks why you don't love her like that. He just swam a mile through a freezing sea for her. Before you lose that argument, understand what she is really pointing at.
He is kind, loyal, attentive, and she keeps choosing the man who is none of those things. The reason is not that he is too good. It is that nice was never a virtue. It was a strategy.
When a woman says 'I like guys who make me laugh,' the literal reading is wrong. Here is what she actually means, and why most men chase the wrong thing.
You met her. You were attentive. You did everything right. And then she chose someone who treated her noticeably worse. Here is what actually happened.
Most men try to be a conversationalist by talking more. The real move is upstream: read the room, hold its tempo, lead what it feels. The talking is the smallest part.
Most men think storytelling is having something interesting to tell. The harder skill is knowing what to leave in, what to leave out, and where the punchline has to land.
Our dating profile has to be subject-worthy to hold a conversation, spark intrigue and show our character. We at CGull have the best tips and tricks on what kinds of profile pictures are the best
As guys, we have learnt that status would reward us with female choice and the ‘alpha male’ is the one with the biggest muscle that can beat up any incoming foe. And if we don't have the biggest
Across all languages, cultures and beliefs within humans, the 3 common ways of communicating are laughing, crying and screaming. These are innate systems in humans across all cultures that we are
You may have noticed that most people who end up as couples have met before and spent time together. Be it in school, during extracurricular activities, at work and so on. They might have met eac
Charisma is an often-used mystery word. While everyone has a general inkling about what it means, they will find it hard to define it. This is why, while people want to be charismatic, they do no
Attraction is something that Nature switches on for you when you reach puberty. But it's only that one time that Nature does it for you. After that, switching it off or on again is in your hand.
Gearing up for a first date is always akin to preparing for a smooth sailing voyage into the seas of romance. You are the captain, and your outfit is your ship. Both need to be in top shape to n
Ah, you swiped right, and they did, too. Congratulations! Now comes the real challenge, and no, it's not choosing the perfect emoji to send first. It’s figuring out what to wear! Whether you’re
Hey there! Jumping into the world of online dating is always exciting but also a bit overwhelming. One key part of setting up your dating profile is figuring out what to share about your 'status
Starting a conversation on a romantic date doesn't have to be nerve-wracking. With the right opener, you can set the tone for a lovely evening filled with laughter, shared stories, and genuine c
Ever wonder what makes a photo irresistible in the digital dating scene? Well, matchmakers, those wizards of love connections, have some intriguing insights to share. Picture this: your online p
Ever noticed how some guys seem to have it all together without even trying? They’re not flexing on social media or boasting about their latest conquests. Instead, they just quietly go about the
Ever noticed how some folks always seem to nab those right swipes? It's not just about having a killer smile or the perfect selfie angle. The real secret? Crafting a profile status that's like s
"You never get a second chance to make a first impression," said Will Rogers. Ever heard of 'Dress to Impress? That's key for your first date. There you stand, staring into your closet, wonderin
Hey! Want to make your online dating profile stand out? With so many profiles out there, it's crucial to make yours memorable. But don’t worry, it’s easier than you think. We've got some great t
You've created your profile, set your standards, and patiently waited for the signal that you have a match. But it's been days, and you didn't get any swipes! If that's the scenario, there are ot
Do you frequently miss out on Tinder matches? Take a long, hard look at your Tinder photos if that is the case. Chances are that you have uploaded bad, inappropriate, or irrelevant pictures. Thi
Every person wants to appear attractive and organised in front of their dates. But, unfortunately, not everyone can bring it off like a pro! Since the beginning of time, men have struggled with
You must be familiar with actors who aren't handsome in a conventional way but still have a more significant part of the female population fawning over them. But, of course, a man's features don'
Who wants to be a 'bad boy’? You should be… when it comes to dating today! Because that is what women dig big time. Sounds intriguing? Read on. Definite trends show that 'bad boys’ appeal to the
