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  1. 5 Things Girls Want Guys to Do on a First Date

    Whether you're looking for a fun hike in the rough wilderness or a fancy evening out in a sophisticated restaurant, there are some basic rules of behavior. Even if things get more casual later on

  2. On doing the 'right thing' during dates

    As modern men, we have heard the phrase “Be a man” multiple times throughout our lifetime. This ‘advice’ can come at us from various age groups, social circles and also from both genders. But usu

  3. Why She Likes Funny Guys

    Across all languages, cultures and beliefs within humans, the 3 common ways of communicating are laughing, crying and screaming. These are innate systems in humans across all cultures that we are

  4. Manhood Initiations - A Man's Rite of Passage

    Initiation into adulthood has been an age-old concept in the history of civilization, and has been present across most cultures through various customs. The rites of passage from boyhood to manho

  5. Men - You have to love yourself first

    We all want to be loved by others. But at times we don't give them a fair chance to even like us. This is because many of us don't like ourselves in the first place. This negative perception rega

  6. Giving life to your conversations with Women

    Conversations used to be the glue in having meaningful relationships, and social as well as professional interactions. A good heart-to-heart or a one-on-one worked wonders daily. It kept serious

  7. How you can increase your Attraction Score on Dates

    You may have noticed that most people who end up as couples have met before and spent time together. Be it in school, during extracurricular activities, at work and so on. They might have met eac

  8. Conversational Ratios - How Much effort do we put into a conversation

    When two people talk, the conversational ratio is the ratio of the talk-time taken up by them in the conversation. In an ideal dating scenario, the ratio should be 50:50, given that in an ideal s

  9. Controlling the Conversation while Dating

    The purpose of having a conversation while dating is to get to know each other better, and to have fun while doing it. Also, it is about you controlling the conversation without looking like you

  10. The Wingman, or Wingwoman

    Never underestimate the powers of the wingman if you are contemplating venturing into the dating scene. A wingman is your friend who will accompany you to social gatherings, and make it easier f

  11. Charisma – The mystery word

    Charisma is an often-used mystery word. While everyone has a general inkling about what it means, they will find it hard to define it. This is why, while people want to be charismatic, they do no

  12. Attraction can be switched on

    Attraction is something that Nature switches on for you when you reach puberty. But it's only that one time that Nature does it for you. After that, switching it off or on again is in your hand.

  13. How to get good socially

    Society is what exists around you, in terms of the people who have direct or indirect influence on your life. It is important to be a good member of that society as it will determine your level o

  14. Being 'yourself'

    While having been encouraged to be yourselves almost all your lives, some of you, at one point, may realise that being so is not getting you anywhere in life, let alone even near about where you

  15. Abundance Mind-set - The preferred way of life

    Understanding the concept of an abundance mind-set would be incomplete without the understanding of a scarcity mind-set...

  16. Stay confident before girls

    It is basic nature for guys to try and impress girls. But it still needs confidence to take that step. There could be two probable reasons...

  17. Online Dating Consultants' Chill Guide to Balanced Dating

    Finding love in the Lion City can sometimes feel like searching for a quiet spot at Marina Bay Sands during peak hours, which is challenging but not impossible. Did you know that nearly 58% of s

  18. Men's Guide for Sexy Clothing on First Date

    Gearing up for a first date is always akin to preparing for a smooth sailing voyage into the seas of romance. You are the captain, and your outfit is your ship. Both need to be in top shape to n

  19. Top 7 Ideal First Date Tips From Dating Experts

    So, you’ve finally scored a first date! Congrats! But wait, what do you do now? Do you bring flowers, write a poem, or perform a magic trick? Take a deep breath, dear reader! We have your back w

  20. Sexy Clothes for Every Date - Dressing Tips

    Ah, you swiped right, and they did, too. Congratulations! Now comes the real challenge, and no, it's not choosing the perfect emoji to send first. It’s figuring out what to wear! Whether you’re

  21. Skip These Convo Starters On Your First Date

    Ah, first date! They're like a box of surprises, and you never know what you're going to get! They can be exciting, nervous, and sometimes funny. When trying to make a good impression, sometimes

  22. Stop Comparing! Tips From Dating Consultants

    In the realm of dating and relationships, social media shows us perfect dates and dream proposals, making us compare our own love lives to those pictures. The influence of social media can change

  23. 5 Signs It's Time to Consult a Relationship Expert

    Dating can be really tough, and sometimes, you might feel like you're not doing it right. If you keep running into the same problems or just can't seem to figure things out, maybe it's time to t

  24. Why Is Your 'Status' Important in Online Dating Profiles?

    Hey there! Jumping into the world of online dating is always exciting but also a bit overwhelming. One key part of setting up your dating profile is figuring out what to share about your 'status

  25. 8 Charming Conversation Openers for Romantic Dating

    Starting a conversation on a romantic date doesn't have to be nerve-wracking. With the right opener, you can set the tone for a lovely evening filled with laughter, shared stories, and genuine c

  26. Photos to Attract a Woman: Matchmakers' Top Picks

    Ever wonder what makes a photo irresistible in the digital dating scene? Well, matchmakers, those wizards of love connections, have some intriguing insights to share. Picture this: your online p

  27. "Set Your Standards in Your Dating Life", Says Relationship Experts

    In the quest for a fulfilling dating life, setting boundaries and standards is like navigating through a dense, mysterious forest. You need that compass to guide you, ensuring you don't lose you

  28. 7 Traits of Men Who Don’t Need to Attract a Woman

    Ever noticed how some guys seem to have it all together without even trying? They’re not flexing on social media or boasting about their latest conquests. Instead, they just quietly go about the

  29. How to Get a Right Swipe With Your Profile Status

    Ever noticed how some folks always seem to nab those right swipes? It's not just about having a killer smile or the perfect selfie angle. The real secret? Crafting a profile status that's like s

  30. 10 Relationship Readiness Signs From Relationship Experts

    In the quest for companionship, it's crucial to ask oneself, "Am I really ready for a relationship?" Beyond the common yardsticks like emotional availability and the desire for partnership, ther

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