Earning Your Confidence
Confidence is not given, it is earned. And confidence can not be faked. It is an attribute whether you have it or not.
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Why having different personas is important
We all have different personas and social masks that we swap between on a daily basis, and it is catered to the objective and audience we are working with.
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Why we fear rejection and why it hurts us
Have you ever used a line, or something along the lines of “will you go out with me?”. Then as you anticipate the response from the lady, you feel your heart in your mouth, your heart races and e
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How to be calm on dates
This has been debated over and over again by many. And we get all kinds of responses from that. But one type of answer that has always echoed from the professionals from all over the world is - i
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The best pictures for your dating profile
Our dating profile has to be subject-worthy to hold a conversation, spark intrigue and show our character. We at CGull have the best tips and tricks on what kinds of profile pictures are the best
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Why PickUp Lines do not matter
This has been debated over and over again by many. And we get all kinds of responses from that. But one type of answer that has always echoed from the professionals from all over the world is - i
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The importance of Status
As guys, we have learnt that status would reward us with female choice and the ‘alpha male’ is the one with the biggest muscle that can beat up any incoming foe. And if we don't have the biggest
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Why Men Dont Cry
The issue we face in modern society with unemotional men is the byproduct of said society not giving men the license to feel.
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5 Things Girls Want Guys to Do on a First Date
Whether you're looking for a fun hike in the rough wilderness or a fancy evening out in a sophisticated restaurant, there are some basic rules of behavior. Even if things get more casual later on
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On doing the 'right thing' during dates
As modern men, we have heard the phrase “Be a man” multiple times throughout our lifetime. This ‘advice’ can come at us from various age groups, social circles and also from both genders. But usu
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Why She Likes Funny Guys
Across all languages, cultures and beliefs within humans, the 3 common ways of communicating are laughing, crying and screaming. These are innate systems in humans across all cultures that we are
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Manhood Initiations - A Man's Rite of Passage
Initiation into adulthood has been an age-old concept in the history of civilization, and has been present across most cultures through various customs. The rites of passage from boyhood to manho
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Men - You have to love yourself first
We all want to be loved by others. But at times we don't give them a fair chance to even like us. This is because many of us don't like ourselves in the first place. This negative perception rega
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Giving life to your conversations with Women
Conversations used to be the glue in having meaningful relationships, and social as well as professional interactions. A good heart-to-heart or a one-on-one worked wonders daily. It kept serious
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How you can increase your Attraction Score on Dates
You may have noticed that most people who end up as couples have met before and spent time together. Be it in school, during extracurricular activities, at work and so on. They might have met eac
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Conversational Ratios - How Much effort do we put into a conversation
When two people talk, the conversational ratio is the ratio of the talk-time taken up by them in the conversation. In an ideal dating scenario, the ratio should be 50:50, given that in an ideal s
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Controlling the Conversation while Dating
The purpose of having a conversation while dating is to get to know each other better, and to have fun while doing it. Also, it is about you controlling the conversation without looking like you
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The Wingman, or Wingwoman
Never underestimate the powers of the wingman if you are contemplating venturing into the dating scene. A wingman is your friend who will accompany you to social gatherings, and make it easier f
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Charisma – The mystery word
Charisma is an often-used mystery word. While everyone has a general inkling about what it means, they will find it hard to define it. This is why, while people want to be charismatic, they do no
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Attraction can be switched on
Attraction is something that Nature switches on for you when you reach puberty. But it's only that one time that Nature does it for you. After that, switching it off or on again is in your hand.
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How to get good socially
Society is what exists around you, in terms of the people who have direct or indirect influence on your life. It is important to be a good member of that society as it will determine your level o
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Being 'yourself'
While having been encouraged to be yourselves almost all your lives, some of you, at one point, may realise that being so is not getting you anywhere in life, let alone even near about where you
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Abundance Mind-set - The preferred way of life
Understanding the concept of an abundance mind-set would be incomplete without the understanding of a scarcity mind-set...
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Stay confident before girls
It is basic nature for guys to try and impress girls. But it still needs confidence to take that step. There could be two probable reasons...
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Online Dating Consultants' Chill Guide to Balanced Dating
Finding love in the Lion City can sometimes feel like searching for a quiet spot at Marina Bay Sands during peak hours, which is challenging but not impossible. Did you know that nearly 58% of s
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Men's Guide for Sexy Clothing on First Date
Gearing up for a first date is always akin to preparing for a smooth sailing voyage into the seas of romance. You are the captain, and your outfit is your ship. Both need to be in top shape to n
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Top 7 Ideal First Date Tips From Dating Experts
So, you’ve finally scored a first date! Congrats! But wait, what do you do now? Do you bring flowers, write a poem, or perform a magic trick? Take a deep breath, dear reader! We have your back w
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Sexy Clothes for Every Date - Dressing Tips
Ah, you swiped right, and they did, too. Congratulations! Now comes the real challenge, and no, it's not choosing the perfect emoji to send first. It’s figuring out what to wear! Whether you’re
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Skip These Convo Starters On Your First Date
Ah, first date! They're like a box of surprises, and you never know what you're going to get! They can be exciting, nervous, and sometimes funny. When trying to make a good impression, sometimes
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Stop Comparing! Tips From Dating Consultants
In the realm of dating and relationships, social media shows us perfect dates and dream proposals, making us compare our own love lives to those pictures. The influence of social media can change